Someone said to me when I was upset about the loss of my baby to count my blessings....at first I was hurt but as I thought about it tonight I thought what a great idea....let me count my blessings because I do have MANY more than most and should be happy and think about those. So lets count the blessings!!!!
1. Two healthy/happy boys
2. My husband/best friend partner in life Shane
3. The most amazing parents who support everything I do
4. Being able to stay at home and enjoy every moment with my boys
5. A husband who loves to cook
6. A husband who loves his boys and helps with everything he can
7. Being able to move and buy a house
8. Having the best friends
9. Not having to stress about money and bills
10. My husbands job
So I have MANY more but you get the point :) The saying "Count your blessings" does help. Knowing I have so much helps the hurt of losing something little. I am so blessed to have been able to conceive and deliver my boys with no issues. There are so many people who can't do that. I think my miscarriages have taught me to appreciate them even more. Life is so precious, too precious to waste on grief and sadness. So I am choosing to spend my life on the happy not the sad.
I have always been a firm believer of the phrase "'fake it till you make it" and I think it applies here. I might not feel happy but I am going to "fake" it and one day I won't have to fake it I will be happy again :)
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